You're lookin' at him.
I've been asking myself, "Who[sic] should I let manage my photos?" as a way to talk myself into letting Lightroom and the Adobe ecosystem take over the nitty gritty of file and library management. In the end, I couldn't go through with it, so I remain in charge.
Yes, it can be a pain to deal with files, folders, storage, backups, naming, and so on. But, managing things myself is the way I've always done it. One of the most important things I "own" are my photos. Why would I give up any control over them? For now, at least, I'm not going to. I'm back to my process of culling, naming, tagging, and cataloging with Photo Mechanic Plus and editing in Capture One Pro.
So, 2021, here we come!